Would you accept that your mother, sister or wife be harassed, touched our catcalled in your presence? Of course not! Then why is it implied that we should take it as a compliment when the comments are turned towards us?
Luckily, the Qu’ran and multiple hadiths speak of modesty, of lowering one’s gaze and keeping from commenting on each other’s allure. Unfortunately, cultural subjugaison and maintenance of the male status quo puts once again the burden of modesty on women and far too often, the men disregard the similar verses that apply to them.
I’ve been donning hijab as a form of modesty and I’ve simply had it with pseudo-Alpha males who in a show of machismo to their dimwit buddies decide that yellow, hollering or cat calling will win them any form of favour or amusement on my part. If you are a Muslim man reading this, be warned: the next man to howl or holler at me, will get a very vulgar piece of my mind!
Keep your hands, eyes and thoughts to yourself! Astagfurillah!